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Overcoming the Challenges of ADHD in Academic Writing

As a university student with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), I often feel like I’m navigating a world that wasn’t designed for me. It can be challenging to keep up with the fast-paced, highly structured environment of academia when my brain works differently than many of my peers.

One of the most frustrating symptoms of ADHD for me is disorganization. It can be difficult for me to plan and execute tasks, which has led to missed deadlines and lost papers in the past. This has made me feel like I’m constantly falling behind, no matter how hard I try to keep up.

Another symptom of ADHD that has affected my academic performance is difficulty with executive function skills. These cognitive skills help us plan, organize, and complete tasks, and I have struggled with them in the past. This has made it difficult for me to develop a clear thesis, outline my thoughts, and organize my ideas into a coherent structure when writing papers.

In addition to these difficulties, my hyperactivity can also make it hard for me to focus in class and complete assignments on time. It can be a struggle to sit still and pay attention, which has made me feel self-conscious and isolated in a classroom full of students who seem to be able to focus with ease.

Despite these challenges, I have learned to advocate for myself and seek out the support and accommodations I need to succeed in my studies. I have found that using a planner and breaking tasks into smaller steps has helped me stay organized, and working with a tutor or mentor has provided valuable guidance and feedback on my writing yet I haven’t find the right place and University for that kind of support. I have also looking for accommodations through my school’s disability services office, such as extra time on exams and permission to use a computer to write papers.

It’s important to remember that everyone has their own unique strengths and challenges. As a student with ADHD, I have learned to embrace my differences and seek out the support I need to succeed. While it can be a struggle at times, I am determined to overcome these challenges and achieve my academic goals.

As you have read, individuals with ADHD can face unique challenges in the academic setting. It is important to remember that these challenges do not reflect a lack of intelligence or motivation, but rather, are the result of a neurodevelopmental disorder.

By raising awareness about ADHD and advocating for accommodations and support, we can create a more inclusive and understanding environment for students with this disorder. If you or someone you know has ADHD and is struggling in school, remember that there are resources and strategies available to help you succeed. With the right support and accommodations, individuals with ADHD have the ability to excel academically and reach their full potential

Lily the New Character

In the dim light of the moon, a figure could be seen sitting in a corner, scribbling away in a journal. It was a young girl, with hair as black as night and eyes as bright as the stars. She was lost in her own world, where her thoughts and dreams ran wild, where anything was possible.

Lily is a young girl with a passion for words and a talent for poetry who comes from a world where stories are born. She was diagnosed with ADHD and finds it difficult to focus, but she refuses to let it hold her back. Writing is a release for her, allowing her to express her emotions and capture her ideas. She writes about her journey, struggles, and hopes for the future.

Lily is a creative soul with a passion for capturing the beauty and wonder of the world. Whether it’s the stunning natural landscapes, the rich cultural traditions, or the captivating stories of people she meets, Lily is always on the lookout for new sources of inspiration.

Her inspiration:

Lily is a creative soul with a passion for capturing the beauty and wonder of the world. Whether it’s the stunning natural landscapes, the rich cultural traditions, or the captivating stories of people she meets, Lily is always on the lookout for new sources of inspiration.

Lily is also inspired by the people she encounters in her daily life. Whether it’s the stories of her friends and family, or the unique experiences of the strangers she meets, Lily finds a wealth of inspiration in the people around her.

And of course, Lily is a lifelong learner who is always looking for new sources of inspiration. From exploring different cultures and traditions, to diving into the worlds of literature and science, Lily is never short on ideas.

In short, Lily is an inspiration to all of us, constantly seeking out new sources of inspiration and capturing the beauty of the world in her own unique way.

making sense to love in 2020

the most of us not understanding why we are trying to make sense to it , when we love it is just happend but sometimes you have to work hard for it , it is not what you see in movies or nor you see on you ”tiktok” or ”instagram” let dance after a fight….. it is a lot of steps that most of the people dont bother taking because of the swiping culture, looking for none existing partner highering our expectation and lowering our values.

you call it modern dating, I call it a disease …

as a human being we all need stability, we require a future to wake up everyday a reason, there is no shame if the reason to wake up is to see the smile of your partner, or to feel his/her sadness , being a part of someone life is amzing feeling dont run away from it hiding your self fearing the lose, the pain, and the break up.

to rant a little bit about this topic, is indepency and individuality thinking in a big city , the pride we hold to the ownership, and we all want to look perfect in the eyes of the society or others trying to be strong and pretend you know it all, pretend that you are perfect … doing your yoga classes, meditation, being busy all the time, loving your self ….then why do you live in a city ? why you have chosen to be somewhere next to all people to build you future becaue our lives require the existence of the other (the others).

so many of us mistaken romance with reality, so many of us been hurt damaged . but so many of us appreciate more the word ”love” and ready to have the love they deserve.

the need to abondon the values of love when no one still believe in it, because now we have to give it differnet name or even being ashmaed of it because it is no longer cool, maybe it is a collection of attachment we start and we just waiting for it to end. Too many choices , everybody has this idea of how their partner be like and surely no one can match this image in our heads, you easily move from one tinder match to another no need to work hard on a relationship anymore.

Social Media Effect:

Instagram couple or we call it hashtag couple goals ,seeing others comparing your relation ship with your partner sitting looking at the photo of those fake online couples, is giving you insecurities maybe having a second guess about your relationship, he couldfind someone better, she could find someone sexier…..

Misogyny Feminist : the females that hold power and think they dont have to clean or do some stuff because they have power girl, it is not a compitation between the gender it is more love… but maybe some people have never experienced no one to blame here over stimulate content, following the behaviour of other influencers, and it is somehow not possible to consantracte on one thing when the city environment is distracting you.

as we all no longer valued of who we are, we are more in this postmodern cuture valuing other by how pretty, succeful,or accepted inthe society. why we have to commit to one person why we can use so many people to our needs,the Narcissus culture as I see it, no one deserve my life and everyone deserve my love as long they are fullfilling my needs,we change love from giving to using and being recycled .

Love is when we values our partner and look at them the way they are, love is giving one self to another and to end this really quick with some inspiring quotes to me :

  1. When you like a flower you, just pluck it. But when you love a flower, you water it daily” – Buddha, Siddharta Gautama
  2. Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.” – Erich Fromm, The Art of Loving.
  3. To love is to willingly endure being hated as a reward for one’s love” – Soren Kierkegaard, Works of Love.
  4. In Indonesian: (“Love is giving, Love is not taking, love is love”) – D.R, my mentor. Note: The Indonesian word for “love” is the same as “giving”.
  5. Love is not tasting, it is receiving” – Gendis, my mentor’s 9 year-old daughter. Note: The Chinese word for “love” is consisted of the word “heart” in the middle. It is the acceptance of the heart of another person for who they are within the innermost part of our being.

The Covid19 Spring

it is really nice outside , I can not go out …

we are locked down , are we paying for someone else’s mistake

or our planet is sick , and tired of us ?.

are we reflecting correctly to this , or we will recover and continue ….

continue to be selfish ,  and not nice to each other’s.

 

the spring is really here but we are all inside scared from the invisible enemy , enemy or just a really heavy visitor .

every day it passes and the spring is there , the flowers blossoming, the nature would survive and heal again , are able to forget , are we able to continue like before … or we can use this as a break to sit and think of what we were doing …

drinking 4 mugs of coffee everyday , go running work after work , make money , make fake friends .

trying to look cool achieving our goals , but our jobs means nothin comparative to those who nursing , working to give us food , a house ,and leisures .

 

now it is the time to applaud , for what ? for sitting there not able to do anything , I am really ashamed of my self , but still , I can be something in this society somehow .

 

I am sorry ,beautiful-cute-inspiring-photography-favim_com-330304

Sun down

I am not going to rephrase it for you ,  I know that’s maybe you last relationship  broke you , feeling unable to share feelings with another person ..

how you handling it , selling your self short , having random dates and feeling unworthy , right ??

you don’t want to face it , because you don’t like drama , you are away too strong to use the word  ”BROKEN” as reference to yourself.

I am so sorry , maybe you think you are  not but you are still that person , after all _you will always still that person who is capable of love again and living and carrying on and on … even sometimes it feels like we have reach the edge or you falling apart .

you have that feeling inside you that’s nothing fit right ? or maybe like it used to feel before ? you don’t feel butterflies easily , you don’t feel so much happy when he/she touched your hand seems rarely to happen ? maybe just being with other dates seems (feels) empty _dull.

hahaha , funny those days when you spend them in front of mirror trying to impress your date , you don’t do that anymore don’t you ? the part of you , the intimacy the emotional part of you is missing ….

Love always come back to you ….
you are just not ready yet . the next time , it will take you by surprise . the real stuff always does come unpredictably , unknown ,and random .

 

Wake up on Sunday’s

Tomorrow is Monday another week to go through , but sundays are the very tough ,why?

Because another day anther week of your life to make a decisions , mistake , maybe survive … I don’t want to be dark but it is true .. we are all looking to be worthy and loved and noticed by someone else..

Isn’t that time of your life to stop caring ?, by mean to stop helping others , it always has a side effect on your aura and yourself , it effects you personally and emotionally , it drains you energy and fight with your peace , mind , and happiness .

It is not actually your job to help or heal people , I am in that point of my life all I want to focus is my self to better life and

writing through anger

I came to a surprising realization , it feels  very relieving  when I write , and specially about something that hurts me or matters to me .
Today I am going to talk about how it feels to be a skin ~ dark , yellow , white …skin is not about color , or race or nationality . 

skin people is about culture that it may not be understood by others , lack of information, lack of a proper education …. who knows it might be a benefit for some authorities to keep things how they are … I  am not talking about politics not my cup of tea , I like milk as well …

However , my purpose from this post or this  , that’s the  Racism is about categorizing people , most of the time people have anger against  the stuff they don’t understand , rage of emotions to not understanding humans behaviour , or why the (the others ) are different .

Make some effort more and work on your self first . Pushing the ego down is strength but not a weakness.

black Friday

oooohhhh guys , Black Friday is here …
are you making a new resolution to end a bad habits? read this maybe we can call this a new year movement ? hold on we can call it in a cool way becoming Minimalist ?.
well, think better before you throw the trash ? my introduction to this is basically helping the planet by saving us from a bad habits , clothings , shopping … have you ever thought about how do you look like all the time ? I am so sorry for the so many questions , but in real life that’s how I start thinking for the last year .
one of the most reason that really kept me interested into this ,
A lot of clothing is made of organic material, meaning that it is derived from natural sources and is biodegradable. But landfills lack the oxygen needed for organic materials to break down so, when clothing does end up in a landfill, it decomposes through anaerobic digestion. This process results in the emission of dangerous greenhouse gases that, in a landfill, are largely uncontrolled and end up escaping into the atmosphere, accelerating climate change. Recycling 100 million pounds of clothes has an effect on the environment equivalent to removing 26,000-35,000 cars from the road.
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Hello , readers

I am sorry , I’m not good at blogging art …

But hope you can forgive me and accept my stupidity …

I want to choose WordPress to be my blog where I can express and start my actual dream as a writer , or a blogger…

it seems not easy since I am not good at attracting people’s attention I don’t know how to sweet chat or talk I’m kind of cold , or maybe a bit salty …

I am not English mother tongue but still , I’m trying everyday to be able to express how I feel and write it down …

In those days when everyone pretending they don’t care or they are emotionless ..

I raise my hand and say : I Cry , I am a c

If you want to contact me use ur iG : @ikramology

Trying , or not …

To be honest , with all my grammatical mistake and my messy ideas and hair .

How can I make my blog working effectively , since I have a real chance to make it work . I like WordPress I like everything has to do with writing taking pictures … sharing stuff with people but it always seems difficult to organize my thought into a nice or attractive post to all people who would be interested to read my post.

Don’t , tell me ” follow the tradition paragraph writing skills , with introduction, ideas , statements … I leave it for scams

Any advice or any tips how to make my blog work and what should I write about ? Be glad you text me or comment here .